Thank you for viewing this test. This is the actual test you will take after registering and paying for this Home Study Course. Finding Our Fathers How A Man's Life Is Shaped By His Relationship With His Father By Samuel Osherson, Ph.D. According to the author, men's early and on-going relationships with their fathers shape the intimacy and work dilemmas men coming of age today face. True False According to the author, men often mididentify with their fathers, crippling their identities as men. TRUE FALSE Becoming a father may spark an identity struggle for men. True False Many people believe than men care more than women about love. True False Part of what gets in the way of reconciliation between fathers and sons is our conflict around separating from our mothers. True False When a man says he can't love his children because he wasnt loved well enough, it is the wounded father he is struggling with. True False For a son who grows up with the experience of the all-suffering father, suffering and entrapment may seem the male fate. True False Children rarely become ideal or surrogate partners for their parents. True False Sons and fathers often have to act out their struggles indirectly or symbolically. True False The author emphasizes men's need to heal the wounded father within. True False The feeling of neglect is a problem only for men in traditional marriages whose wives go back to work after the kids are grown. True False Only a minority of women in most recent studies report depression when their children grow up. True False Very few men attempt to avoid the feelings created by changes within their families by working harder on their careers. True False Reproductive difficulties can help heal the wounded father within our hearts by leading us to understand that pain and vulnerability are a part of life, not a badge of failure. True False Child psychologist, Dr. Bruno Bettelheim urges us to dismiss children's fairy tales. True False The real-life vulnerabilities and sense of neediness of men during pregnancy also lie in the recognition that they have become dependent on the fetus. True False Rarely do social cues push men toward trying to act instrumental and in control during pregnancy. True False In several studies of new parents, the wives report that the primary negative impact of the child is on their work life. True False The wife-as-family-expert pattern is a big trap for many husbands. True False It is not essential to remember that men have much to gain from tolerating the discomfort of getting into their families. True False According to the author, many new fathers he has spoken with, of spoken of how hard it is to take care of their kids when their wife is around. True False Healing a wounded father may not come in actual dialogue with him. True False